Can't We Talk About Something More Pleasant?

Can't We Talk About Something More Pleasant?

Book - 2014
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JCLDebbieF Jul 06, 2017

An important read for anyone facing the process of caring for elderly parents. I was fascinated with Ms. Chast's story and identified with her anger, guilt and sorrow. It actually relieved some of the guilt I have when dealing with my own parents. It made me laugh and cry.

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Mooseum
Apr 29, 2017

Who doesn't love Roz Chast? Her cartoons hit the mark and often say what we're thinking but might be too polite to say ourselves. This is her hand-written memoir through drawings and comments about her aging parents accompanied by thoughts about her relationship with them over the years. It is sure to hit home with many of us who have had to deal with the same thing. Her poignant photographs of 48 years accumulation of stuff in their apartment brought back memories of trying to figure out how to deal with the same thing in my own parents' home. Each item is fraught with personal history.

There are many things that parents (and others) don't want to talk about. I'm glad that Roz Chast chose to share those things with us.

PinesandPrejudice Feb 11, 2017

Okay this story was depressing, even though I knew that going in. It made me examine the dynamics of death and what happens when your parents grow old. It was a fascinating, raw, honest look into such relationships as well as the struggles. Roz was honest with her feelings, both positive and negative, about the whole journey. I found it fascinating and interesting about something we all have to go through at one point or another.

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storygyrl
Sep 11, 2016

Recommended for anyone with aging parents, or for all of us who are getting on in years and will soon find ourselves in this situation. Good companion book: "They Left Us Everything" by Plum Johnson. Both tell the gritty details of aging and the changes it brings, when the aldut and child roles are reversed

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RachelB7
May 28, 2016

Humor will lighten the heart-rending subject of dealing with aging parents. How wonderful it was to read that I was not alone in my thoughts. Ms. Chast bravely put into words and pictures what most of us only think. A masterpiece.

antrakoka2 Apr 18, 2016

Ms. Chast steps over the usual taboos and speaks up about the unspoken facts as she arrives at the unbearable final stop of her aging parents. Humor and all, Ms. Chase gives you an unforgettable lesson in life in her serious undertone.

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heidiup1
Mar 15, 2016

Excellent--her best!

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lilypad_1
Nov 13, 2015

Essential read for anyone who is a caregiver wondering how to handle the next steps. Her down to earth sense of humor lightens up a scarey and emotional subject that many of us are or will face.

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modestgoddess
Oct 10, 2015

Such a great read, but especially for anyone with an aging parent or parents. Roz Chast's observations are spot-on. You may not recognize your own specific situation, but some of the feelings and attitudes will likely be familiar.... The cartoons are wonderful and the story well-told.

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amoby
Oct 08, 2015

The ideal autobiographical comic story.

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empbee
Sep 03, 2015

Sadly funny, familiar for many, a nicely illustrated guide with sweet and bitter humour to help you what most will have to deal with. Recommended to everyone over 25.

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JudithE
Aug 25, 2015

Honest, funny, amazing, enlightening, heart-rending, frightening, thought-provoking. Highly recommended.

Sophiawong88 Aug 11, 2015

Required reading for anyone with living parents. I borrowed this because I love Roz Chast. Learned a lot of things I need to know. Nuff said.

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norrielittle
Aug 09, 2015

This book is truly sublime; a heart-warming and honest memoir of a woman's relationship with her parents. Lovely illustrations go hand-in-hand with the unsanitised commentary about the complex life she experienced with her mother, and the acquiescence of her father towards his wife. Lovely.

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santiano9
Jun 29, 2015

Sad, funny, depressing, uplifting, honest, touching, frightening.....a good read.

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kkcox
Jun 12, 2015

Great book for anyone dealing
with aging parents.

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katzella
Jun 04, 2015

Ann Patchett mentioned this book during her keynote speech at the March 2015 Literary Lions. Since I also like Roz Chast, I knew that I wanted to read it. It is an candid & honest depiction of Chast watching her parents decline in health and eventually die. Feeling torn between wanting to be with her family but also feeling guilty about not being there for her parents is evident as is the never really resolved tension between her & her mother. A must-read for the "sandwich" generation

KateHillier Jun 02, 2015

It's something that we're all probably going to have to deal with it at some point and the discussion sucks. It's morbid, it's awful, and it makes you want to shove your head in the sand and pretend it's a non issue. Eventually though, whether you get to deal with just your parents or you get the preview of watching your parents deal with their parents, it comes around. Roz Chast here takes us through her experiences with Elizabeth (her dynamic and strong willed mother) and George (her more mild mannered father who is slowly becoming senile). There's lots of painfully relatable experiences and feelings that anyone who has been in this position, or observed it, can identify and empathize with. The style of art is even very familiar, looking like something you've probably seen everyday in the newspaper. It's a timely read for me due to current events at home and it's also timely given the aging population.

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mclarjh
May 14, 2015

Terrific illustrations, mature adult content, touching and sensitive.

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sess430
May 02, 2015

This graphic novel with its hand-written script and cartoons packs a wallop. The immediacy and intensity of emotions couldn't have been conveyed as effectively in any other form. At times funny as well as sad - the author had a complicated and painful relationship with her mother - this memoir provides insights into dealing with the vicissitudes of old age.

MedinaReads Apr 16, 2015

I laughed, I cried while I read this memoir by Roz Chast as she struggled with caring for her aging parents. This is a book that is difficult to read at times but just might strike a chord if you are helping parents navigate through decisions about independent and assisted living and ultimately hospice care. Have your tissues ready. Recommended by C.H., Brunswick Library, MCDL

JCLBryanV Mar 26, 2015

So much emotional territory is covered in Roz Chast’s graphic memoir Can’t We Talk About Something More Pleasant? This isn’t just another book about death and dying, and certainly not just another book about dealing with ageing parents. Nor is it “just” another graphic memoir. It is much more than this. It’s to Chast’s credit that she is able to convey so honestly and humorously the psychological, emotional, spiritual and physical roller coaster of watching her parents’ health slowly decline and the ensuing aftermath. An essential read.

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triplejudy
Mar 14, 2015

Initially concerned about the "cartoon" drawings, I really loved this book. Who can't relate? I enjoyed the humor, empathized with the sadness and appreciated Roz Chast's honesty.

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mswrite
Mar 14, 2015

Very funny and very painful, particularly as I contemplate my mother's future end-of-life needs (and, frankly, my own). Recommended.

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zenandnow
Feb 28, 2015

Like many other reviewers, graphic novels aren't something I would pick up to read on my own, but once I started reading this I didn't want to stop. It is wonderful to find an honest, compassionate account of what many of us face (or will face) as our parents age.


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